The Power of Thankfulness in a Season of Giving

Written by Annette Bailey, Program Resource Coordinator & Survivor Leader

As we enter a season centered on gratitude and giving, we’re reminded that thankfulness is more than a moment—it’s a mindset that enriches both our lives and the lives of those around us. This time of year beautifully ties together the gratitude of Thanksgiving and the generosity of this season, inviting us to reflect on our blessings and share them with others.

Describing thankfulness can be rooted in an emotional response—there’s a direct connection between something that has happened and the way we feel. We may feel thankful because of an external blessing or moment of relief. While often used interchangeably, thankful is a temporary emotional response to a specific benefit, while grateful is a deeper, more consistent attitude of appreciation for kindness or blessings received. Gratitude involves a conscious awareness of the source of good, whereas thankfulness is often a simpler expression of relief or pleasure.

Words to describe thankfulness include grateful, appreciative, indebted, and obliged. Three types of thankfulness or gratitude can include personal gratitude for what we receive, interpersonal gratitude toward others, and transpersonal gratitude that involves feeling thankful for life itself or for a higher power.

This season signifies showing graditude—a time set aside to express gratitude, reflect on blessings, and connect with family, friends, and community. Many people use this season to give and show acts of kindness, whether feeding the homeless, serving others, or offering care to those who have struggled throughout the year. We are reminded to pause, to give thanks to God, and to acknowledge the kindness that surrounds us.

As we transition from one holiday to another,  the spirit of giving continues. This time of year invites us not only to feel thankful, but to live out gratitude through generosity, compassion, and love. Together, these holidays encourage us to both reflect and give—to appreciate what we have and to share it with others.

During this year, I have been thankful for many things: life, health, strength, employment, family, and friends. Many have endured grief, loss, or disappointment, yet still find reasons to be grateful for what they have.

The word “thankful” speaks volumes. As I reflect on my work at New Friends New Life as Program Resource Coordinator / Economic Empowerment Specialist, I see thankfulness and gratitude every day. Our members walk through our doors seeking hope and a second chance. When you look into their eyes, you see peace and comfort because some of their basic needs are being met. That stability—through open doors and supportive services—is a true expression of gratitude in action.

So, what are you most thankful or grateful for? If you haven’t taken time to reflect, I encourage you to make a list of the things that fill your heart with gratitude during this season.

I would like to wish everyone a very meaningful holiday season filled with giving, gratitude, and connection. Start your list with the words: “I AM THANKFUL FOR…” and see where it leads you.